10 ways to know if he's really serious about you

She thinks they're BF-GF, and he thinks they're just "friends"... with a really loose definition of what a friend is. Here's a way to make it happen less, a way to tell if the guy is serious about you.

1. He holds your hand in public: A public display of affection in this way is a sweet way to connect you two.  Holding hands is actually more of a commitment than, say, kissing because a kiss can be driven by other needs. A kiss doesn't "claim" you.
2. He's usually where he says he's going to be: This is easy. He's not hiding from you.
3. He introduces you to his friends (and family)... and they already know about you:  He's not keeping you hidden. That he's been talking about you is a sign that you matter.
4. You have a title (My Girlfriend, Lady, Woman...): This is an important one. If you're just Lola (or whatever your name is), then who are you?  What do you represent? If you don't have a title then your relationship is a different one than you think it is.
5. He doesn't just come over late and leave early:  Again, another easy one. If his visits are primarily booty calls, that's a problem.
6. His Saturday night belongs to you: Saturday night is date night for people in a relationsip. If he's not with you, where is he?
7. You have more than just his phone number: He who has nothing to hide, hides nothing. You should have all his numbers...home, mobile, work, and whatever else he has.
8. You spend time at his place... including overnight: If you're not spending the night there, who is?
9. If he has a landline at home, he answers it when it rings while you're there: Again, nothing to hide, right?  No concerns about another "chick with expectations" calling.
10. He calls you more than he texts: If this isn't happening, he's just having fun with you.

Source:Oke Efagene: pulse.ng, re-posted by Abdulgafar Esho (www.econsforumnews.blogspot.com)