Joan On Sex: How do I handle a woman with sex addiction?

Hi Joan, Happy new month. My name is Rob and I'm 37 years old. My woman keeps disturbing me every night for sex like she's never satisfied. We have sex multiple times a week and I can't understand why she seems never satisfied. Even when I'm dead tired, I still do it but she keeps complaining. I need her to stop but am also scared she may start cheating on me. What should I do?

Dear Rob,

There is something called sex addiction and I want to think that's what your woman is suffering from. There's a chance she may cheat if you don't give her what she wants. Take her to see a sex specialist and that will help. Take it seriously, if you really love her. Help her.

Hey Joan, I'm Valentine and a regular reader of your articles. Please there is a girl I love so much and would love to marry her if heaven permits me. We've been dating for about 1year plus now but all of a sudden she starts keeping things from me. She's become more secretive and always aggressive. Please Joan I'm confused. What do you think I should do?

Dear Valentine,

Once someone become secretive in a relationship, then there is a problem especially if she wasn't like that before. It means two things: You betrayed her once so she's being cautious or she has trust for someone else. What did you do? If nothing then talk with her and find out. For the aggressive part, I sense you irritate her now. All the same have a sit down and trash it out. Ask if she's in love with some one else or find out what you did to her that made her change.

Hello Joan. I'm Patrick. I met a girl online and we both kicked things off. We fell so much in love with each other. I'm the kind of guy ladies fall in love with easily maybe because of my looks and aura. But now she seem to be going back to her ex who leaves in the UK and who's been feeding her with fat lies. She told me the dude's been disturbing her. But now she's ignoring me and yearning for him. I don't understand. I know she still loves me but I don't condone with such. I will have to stop seeing her.

Dear Patrick,

Please do. Please stop seeing her. Its obvious she's with someone else and there is nothing you can do about that. Funny thing is when a woman begins to admire someone else, there is a high possibility she's almost out of your relationship. It will hurt but please move on with your life. If she has to come back, she will but for now, she's gone.

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