Wha’anda Asks… 5 reasons men patronize sex workers …would you PAY for SEX?

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Almost everyone has at one point in time or the other encountered commercial sex workers.
Some years ago, it was a shameful thing so the women do it very discreetly.
But things have changed and you can see them at almost every corner – once it’s getting dark, the business starts.
Is sex with benefits cool?
We have even created cool names for them; ‘runs girl, hustlers, aristos’ and all such monikers.
The ‘business’ is booming because a lot of men are willing to spare some cash for some non-committal sex with a woman they chose.
 
Anyway, Wha’anda spoke with some men and these are the reasons they gave for seeking paid sex:
  1. Boring wife/girlfriend: A large number of men say their wives’ and lovers’ inability to give them the excitement they seek chases them to commercial sex workers who can do anything once the pay is right (why not teach her?)
  2. Distance and libido: Another group say they buy sex when they are far from their loved ones and feel the urge to have sex (relocate her…telephone sex is quite effective!).
  3. Too busy to keep a relationship: Some men are so busy that they only think of women when they want to have sex so the only available and practical option is a prostitute (slow down…)
  4. Drama free: Romantics relationships are marred with too much drama unlike the non-committal paid sex. So they go to those than can give the sex without the attendant squabbles (well, well….)
  5. Power and control: The ability to demand and get anything, anyhow and anytime makes paid sex appealing to men who like control. In a relationship, the other person’s opinion counts but not where it’s a paid service (so, so selfish…)
Now, some of these reasons are valid in different instances, depending on the persons involved.
Anyway, as a man, would you consider patronizing a commercial sex worker?
Yes or no, why?
Source:Sam Wha'anda: pulse.ng, re-posted by Abdulgafar Esho (www.econsforumnews.blogspot.com)

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